Are you actually solving problems, or just trying to win arguments?

Don't mistake one for the other

This week, the seeker is trying to unlock the next level of performance in their career. But this could apply to a sport, business, or personal life goal you have.

SEEKER:
I’ve had this problem in my work recently, where I’m struggling to take things to the next level of performance. I just feel incredibly indecisive about my next career move.

GUIDE:
How so?

SEEKER:
Well, I’ve mapped out everything I could do, and I’ve been working to justify why that will get me better results. But part of me keeps coming back with doubts and arguments against my solutions.

GUIDE:
What’s that negative part of you saying?

SEEKER:
It says stuff like “what if this won’t work?” or “I’ll be in big trouble if this doesn’t pan out, so I need to be sure before I commit”, or “this is not how it’s usually done.”

GUIDE:
That part of you saying all this stuff - is it objectively wrong?

SEEKER:
I suppose not.

GUIDE:
Ok, so you agree that no solution is perfect, and your mind also knows that.

SEEKER:
I suppose so.

GUIDE:
If no…